"What Chilli Wants" is to be single

Anyone watch that reality show "What Chilli Wants" I just saw the episode where she dumped a guy, a fine, interesting guy btw, she was only casually dating along with some other guy simple because he rode his motorcycle with another chick. GET REAL. First, of all, hes not your man. Women need to stop setting expectations when they aren't even committed to a guy. HES NOT YOUR MAN, DONT EXPECT HIM TO ACT LIKE HE IS. Second, why let other women get to you? Every woman should go into a situation feeling like shes the best thing since sliced bread...its called confidence, invest in some. Men go for women who believe in themselves...if youre gonna be insecure about another woman and you guys have been out twice, you look desperate. PERIOD. Chilli shows that shes completely scared to get into a relationship. She comes off as too picky, needed, and indecisive. And the one man she does attach herself to is emotionally unavailable to her....he wont give her any kind of commitment or acknowledgment of her needs, yet she invests her time in him. She clearly looks for the unattainable because the relationship cant fail if it cant start. These are all defense mechanisms...ladies above all else, we need to be honest with our selves...you cant give to a man or relationship if you are too scared to be with/in one.